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Life Coaching for Men | Phoenix, AZ

Life Coaching for Men Ready to Stop Living on Autopilot

Ready to Stop Living on Autopilot

On the outside, you’re doing everything right —

career, family, responsibility.

But on the inside, it’s a different story.

You feel stressed, disconnected, or angry, and you can’t quite figure out why.

You’ve mastered certain parts of life, yet still feel unfulfilled.

You snap at people you care about, then regret it.

You can’t relax — even when things are going well.

You’re tired of carrying the weight of everyone else’s expectations.

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You’re not broken. You’re human. And you’re not alone.

Why Coaching Works

Most men don’t need years of therapy. They need a proven framework, honest accountability, and a coach who can see through their defenses — and guide them beyond them. That’s my specialty. I’ll challenge you, but I’ll also help you rebuild from the inside out.

Together, we’ll break outdated conditioning, master emotional awareness, and help you live as the man you were meant to be — grounded, calm, and connected.

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A Coach Who Gets It

I’m Christy Maxey — a former therapist turned Life Coach for Men, with over 20 years of experience helping men build emotional intelligence, healthier relationships, and genuine peace of mind.

I work with high-achieving men who are tired of surface-level fixes. Men who are ready to stop numbing, deflecting, and pretending “everything’s fine” — and start doing the real inner work that creates lasting change.

My Signature Framework: The Maxx Method™

The Maxx Method™ is a results-driven system that blends neuroscience, emotional intelligence, and performance psychology to help men:

Understand and regulate emotions with calm and control

Communicate clearly and confidently in every situation

Heal the old patterns that keep sabotaging relationships

Redefine success to include purpose, peace, and fulfillment

Reconnect deeply with what truly matters in your life

This isn’t therapy. It’s practical, direct, and transformational coaching that respects your time and intelligence.

Coaching for Men Who Want More Than Surface Change

If you’re successful on the outside but exhausted on the inside, you’re not alone.

As a Phoenix-based Life Coach for high-achievers, I help clients reconnect with their authentic selves and find peace without losing their edge.

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Relationship Coaching for Men

Relationships don’t come with an instruction manual.

Maybe you’ve noticed:

  • You keep repeating the same patterns
  • You feel misunderstood or emotionally distant
  • Your partner says, “You just don’t get it.”
  • You’re tired of being “fixed,” yet still crave connection
Together, we’ll uncover the deeper habits that create conflict, rebuild emotional awareness, and help you connect — without losing yourself.
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Stress & Burnout Coaching for Men

Stress is the silent killer — physically and emotionally.

You’ve been taught to push through it. Ask yourself:

  • Do you feel exhausted but can’t slow down?
  • Do you overperform for approval and still feel unseen?
  • Do you go through the motions but nothing feels rewarding?
Through stress management coaching, you’ll build systems to manage pressure effectively — so you can think clearly, perform better, and feel calm under pressure.
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Anger & Emotional Regulation Coaching

Anger isn’t the problem — it’s a signal.

When anger goes unmanaged, it can show up as:

  • Outbursts or verbal aggression
  • Self-medicating
  • Anxiety or control issues
  • Strained jobs and relationships
With evidence-based emotional intelligence coaching, you’ll learn to decode anger, identify the emotions underneath it, and use it as a source of strength — not destruction.

Real Results from Real Men

"This was the most important investment I've ever made in myself. I can conclude this with absolute sincerity and confidence after finishing 10 sessions with Christy. (and BTW, I didn't think I needed all 10 sessions, boy was I wrong..!) I'll start by saying that I consider myself a pretty self-aware person. I've been to traditional talk therapists, read a lot of books, listened to podcasts, meditated, even tried less conventional woo-woo shamanistic practices. I've done it all, and deep down I knew I was still suffering. Nothing truly lead me to do the work of journeying to the core of who I was, to face what I needed to face in order to move toward healing and wholeness, until I found Christy Maxey. Her method is brilliant. Her ability to hold space is divine. I had a breakthrough moment every session.."

Randi M.

"She gave me a system to change my thinking. I only wish I would have known her 20 years ago. I learned my emotions are okay - that was very weird because I’ve suppressed them for so long. I’m learning and I feel more myself. I highly recommend Coaching with Christy. I’m more confident in who I am, less angry and anxious, set better boundaries in all my relationships and I just enjoy my life so much more."

Michael G.

"I started working with Christy in August 2023, during a time when I was ready for change but unsure how to break unproductive patterns in my personal and professional life. Through her Maxx approach, Christy helped me identify tendencies like people-pleasing and difficulty setting boundaries, and she guided me in building the tools I needed to manage them. The process gave me renewed confidence and the ability to handle challenges with greater self-awareness. I’m proud of how far I’ve come with her help and I look forward to continuing this work. If you’re ready to make a change, I highly recommend Christy!"

Ryan W.

"Working with Christy has been life changing. Before working with her I was stuck in fear, living in constant toxic cycles and living in a smaller less confident version of myself. Chisty was able to help me not only finally face my fears but she helped me to be okay with good fears and letting go of irrational ones. This process has freed me to be who I am, own my life and start the path to walking in my truth. I am forever grateful to her. So grateful we crossed paths and I made the investment."

Jay H.

You Can Be the Man You Want to Be

Imagine:

• Speaking with confidence instead of anger

• Feeling calm instead of constantly on edge

• Building relationships based on respect and trust

• Waking up with purpose and peace instead of pressure and noise

That’s what’s waiting on the other side of this work.

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Let’s talk about what’s not working — and what’s possible when you stop running on autopilot.

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